This past week has been one of the most emotionally rewarding weeks of service learning. On Tuesday night I got to show the leaders of HAD the video I have made for them. Watching their faces while they were watching the video was one of the most rewarding experiences ever. Thanh kept on saying “wow it’s so nicely edited”, and people’s faces would light up when they saw their interviews. The draft was not problem free of course. One of the biggest problems was that some of the interviews where in a hybrid of International Signs, ASL and VSL rather than pure VSL. Therefore the video was not an accurate reflection of deaf culture in Vietnam. I offered to redo some of the video clips, but the leaders of HAD declined saying that it would take too long. I also think that while there is a problem in using foreign signs, there is the benefit of making the video more accessible to deaf organizations in other countries.
After getting their feedback on the video and giving them my farewell present Le Van Anh did something I hadn’t expected: he invited me to his house warming party on Friday with all the members of the leaders of HAD. The party was amazing. At first all of the women and children were on the third floor while all the men were on the second. I particularly like the two-year-old hearing twins who sat next to me. They kept on signing to their mom and then looking curiously at me. When I asked one of them what his name was he was super surprised and hit his brother to show him that I could sign.
After dinner the women started to mingle with the men downstairs. I got to meet the husbands and wives of the leaders of HAD as well as their friends and families. It was really neat to learn more about the personal lives of these people I have come to care about so much. All throughout the night I kept on being introduced as “the American who was making a video to help them get funding”. As a result I had several people who I had never met before come up to me and shake my hand and thank me. The gratitude was almost overwhelming. People kept on asking if my parents were well and telling me to send them their regards. However what meant the most to me was when Le Van Anh gave me a gift and said “weather or not you are successful in finding any funding for us you have touched our hearts and you are always welcome back here.” I was so happy I almost cried.
In conclusion working with the Hanoi Association of the Deaf has been a dream come true. I have wanted to work with a foreign deaf community for a while and learn another sign language but I thought I wouldn’t have the chance until after I graduated from college. When Peggy (the head of the ASL department at UCSD) suggested that I learn Vietnamese Sign Language at the end of last year I laughed, after all how would that be possible? I’m so glad my doubts turned out to be wrong. Not only have I gotten to learn another sign language, I have also discovered that I have real valuable skills that can be an asset to a deaf community. I’m really going to miss working with HAD and spending time with all of the members of the deaf community who have become my friends. I hope to keep in contact via web cam and email but I am somewhat worried about the language barriers. However no matter what happens I will never forget the things I have learned working with HAD. I will continue to work with deaf communities in whatever way possible and hopefully return to work with HAD again someday.
Attached is a copy of the video I produced for HAD. It is very much a “heart work,” the literal translation of "volunteer work" in VSL. I hope it helps you understand a little bit more about the organization I have grown to love so much. If you are interested in supporting HAD or know any organizations that might be interested in working with HAD please let me know, I will be more than happy to pass on the message.
~Sharon